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Five (5) really common STIs you should watch out for

1. HIV
Human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) is the most common STI to all and sundry. It causes disease in a roundabout way. It attacks the immune system, leaving its host extremely vulnerable to infections and disease. This infection transmits through sex, blood transfusion, pregnancy (if the mother is not using HIV medication), and sharing of sharp objects like needles and syringes and less commonly through breastfeeding.

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Better sex- Can Certain Exercises help?

You spread your legs open, your breath comes in quick pants. You’re about to climax and soon your eyes begin to fill with stars and rainbows. But as soon as you begin to descend from cloud nine, this big question comes. It has been playing subtly in your mind and suddenly strikes you. Are you masturbating too much? Could you harm yourself in the process? Is masturbation healthy?

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#WhispaStory: I have an STD, but I am a virgin!

My name is Ada. You can call me old school, but I promised myself I would remain a virgin until I get married. This is not because I am keeping my virginity for my husband or anything like that. This is because I finally realized it was okay to keep my virginity for me.

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How Do I Ask My Partner To Use A Condom?

My name is Mirabel and when I first started having sex, I was usually shy to talk about condoms with my partner. I couldn’t even buy a condom or look at where it is kept in the supermarkets. So, I was totally dependent on my partner’s decision to either use a condom or not.

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When is the best time to get tested for STIs

This year has been all about the pandemic. Don’t worry, we are not here to talk about Covid-19. Instead, we want to highlight another unacknowledged Pandemic- Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs). We call it a pandemic because millions of people all over the world are infected. Moreso, they do not get tested to know. Worse, it is easily spread from country to country through one of our hobbies as humans-SEX.

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5 wrong things people do to prevent pregnancy

To ensure other ladies can avoid this kind of wahala that Cassandra is in, let us briefly show you some of the wrong things people do around the world (but especially in Nigeria) to prevent pregnancy). Most of these methods are highly unreliable, while some are just plain dangerous and even unsafe. So let’s get started.

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Can ampiclox prevent pregnancy?

an ampiclox prevent pregnancy? No! A lot of people commonly think wrongly that Ampiclox beecham or some brand of antibiotic can help prevent pregnancy. Recently, I was chatting with some undergrads about what they did to prevent pregnancy. Here’s what they told me…(not their real names)

What’s the Big Deal About Premenstrual Syndrome?

Mood swings, Breast Pain or Tenderness, Breakouts, Bloating, Constipation and or diarrhea. These are just some of the symptoms ( read horrors ) women face in the name of reproduction. They are collectively referred to as Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS), and to some may be a mere inconvenience but to others, debilitating.

How Do I Know If I Am Fertile Or Not ?

When it comes to the “are you fertile?” question, it applies to both men and women. For pregnancy to occur, the man and the woman involved must both be fertile. Being fertile refers to the ability of a person to produce offspring. For the sake of this discussion, we’ll be focusing on fertility in women.

5 Similarities Between the Clitoris and the Penis?

ep, you read that right ! There are a few similarities between the clitoris and the penis. While on this very interesting topic, I heard that some people don’t even know the location of the clitoris. Did you catch our post of a video interview asking men to point out the clitoris in a diagrammatic representation? It was so funny. Most men weren’t sure of its exact location.

THE LIVER: EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW

The liver is one of the most commonly talked about vital organs in the human body, and even though not many people know of its actual functions, that doesn’t take away its high significance in our lives.

The liver is often talked about and associated with drinking and smoking. You’ve probably heard someone warn against both habits and how they are bad for you.

Vaginal Odours: What’s Right & What’s Not

It is a universal truth that everyone has a distinct odour. However, for those who have vaginal odours “down below,” it can be quite unpleasant and unsettling. Are these smells typical, and can they be avoided or gotten rid of ? These are some of the questions that we want to tackle in this article.

Health checks Men should do in their 20’s, 30’s, 40’s & 50’s

It is common knowledge that keeping track of all the exams, shots, and other preventative healthcare procedures you require to maintain good health throughout your life can be difficult, especially for men. To help with this process, here are some health checks men should do in their 20’s, 30’s, 40’s and 50’s, as well as the necessary screening tests and vaccines.

How To Calculate Your Menstrual Cycle

On those activity-filled days such as; a friend’s wedding, or a day at the beach, maybe you’re planning a friend’s bridal shower soon, or perhaps you just want to know when to pack a pad or tampon in your suitcase so that your menstrual cycle won’t catch you off guard.

5 Reasons Why Alcohol and Sex Don’t Mix

Over the past decade, young Nigerians have grown increasingly sexually and socially liberated. Old taboos surrounding alcohol and sex have begun to fall away and the mixing of alcohol and sex has become commonplace.

Unfortunately, as more and more Nigeria-focused studies are revealing, this drinking is frequently heavy, and the sex is often risky.

Debunking Major Contraceptive Myths

Most myths surrounding the sexual and reproductive health of women are based on superstition, lack of scientific knowledge, stigma and gender-based discrimination hence, it is important to debunk the prevailing myths because otherwise the problem may be treated for a while but it would continue to recur with increasing severity.

DID YOU KNOW THESE FACTS ABOUT SEMEN AND SPERM

Semen and sperm are kind of like squares and rectangles. Semen is not a part of sperm, but Sperm is a part of semen. So are Semen and Sperm the same thing? Nope! They are NOT!

Semen, commonly known as ejaculate or cum, is the white-ish fluid that typically but not always leaks from a person’s penis after they ejaculate. Semen is made up of many different components, but the male reproductive cells within the semen are known as sperm.

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The correct way to clean your genitals (Male version)

The genitals are not only one of the most sensitive parts of the human body. They also have a tendency to be the home to some infections if not kept clean. Giving it the care it deserves is beneficial to men and women but it begs the obvious question- how? What exactly is the correct way to clean your genitals?

This Part 1 is for men, Part 2 is for women and will be posted shortly, so let’s get started!!!

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The correct way to clean your genitals (Females)

The female genitals are not only one of the most sensitive parts of the human body. They also have a tendency to be the home to some infections if not kept clean. Giving it the care it deserves is beneficial to men and women but it begs the obvious question- how? What exactly is the correct way to clean your genitals, especially your vagina?

Did you miss Part 1 for men…? well here’s part 2 for the ladies…

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How to calculate the Ovulation Period

Do you think of the menstrual cycle as this unending bloody series with seasons 1 to 50+? then think of ovulation period as the most important action hero in your menstrual cycle (series). If you were to stop, delay, or postpone a woman’s ovulation date, the date of the next menstrual cycle will automatically change.

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Does penis size really matter?

Penis size does not determine whether or not your sex partner(s) will enjoy the session or experience earth-shattering orgasms during sex. Let’s take a minute to think of the penis size and compare it to breast size. By now you should know that the amount of milk the breasts can produce has nothing to do with the size. We said it- NOTHING.

Reasons Your Period May Be Late Other Than Being Pregnant

Some people’s periods come on schedule each month. Others may find theirs to be irregular and erratic and for some, they sometimes don’t happen at all! If your mensuration is delayed or totally absent, you just may not actually be pregnant. Read on to find out why your monthly visitor may be delayed or missing.

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What happens if you are single and pregnant in Nigeria?

There is no doubt that one or more of these scenarios has been experienced by countless other women or to a close family member or loved one. These are some of the reasons why at WHISPA, we believe in women having the right and the ability to prevent getting pregnant until they are ready.